I personally think the best Bond is played by actor Daniel Craig. To me, he fits the image of what James Bond should look like because he has a combination of rugged and soft features, along with his piercing light eyes and extremely fit physique; a special agent that bad guys fear and that women can’t resist for. Bond isn’t played by someone who looks like Channing Tatum, so it’s not looks that ultimately get the women, it’s the way he carries himself as a man that makes him irresistible to them.
James Bond is the epitome of an alpha male because he is a hero, a leader, and he does things his way. He doesn’t complain, he controls his emotions, and he does whatever is necessary to get the job done.
Naturally, any woman would be attracted to real James Bond; his life is full of mystery, suspense, and danger. He is the personification of an adventure; women love to hate him and they all want to tame him. He is unattainable, unpredictable, and unapologetic. He lives in his own reality and doesn’t allow anyone to influence it.
In every single Bond movie, multiple women end up falling for him, but he never allowed them to challenge his masculinity nor did he tolerate his silly games. As much as they wanted to slap him, and most of the time they do, they just couldn’t seem to resist him.
When you examine how James Bond interacts with women, he is always a cocky-funny kind of guy that knows exactly what to say and when to say it. The second he interacts with a woman he is interested in, the sexual tension is begins in an instant. It is like they are already fighting like a couple before they have even hooked up; like a role-play of a couple who can’t stand each other after years of dating. When the tries to challenge him by being bitchy, Bond always fires back with something wittier. He is always 10 steps ahead of her and her games, and has already won her over before she can even realize it.
Bond’s natural push-and-pull flirtation is a clever technique, but it comes to him naturally. He controls the frame of the interaction with his bold moves and always takes the lead which implies without saying, “Listen woman, I don’t care how gorgeous you are, I’m the man here and we do things my way.” Naturally, each Bond woman tries to test him but he never falls for her petty feminine power plays and mind-games. With every failed attempt to win him over, they’re drawn even more to him. As you notice in the films, over time, Bond increases the push-pull tension and the flirtatious fighting gets worse; to the point when things finally are at their peak tension, and that’s where he just grabs the woman and kisses her, putting an end to the game.
One thing you’ll never see Bond do is use stupid, insincere pick-up lines or sweet talk; he gets right to the point, with honest, witty, sexually charged humor. He doesn’t have time to play games because he has more important things to attend to, like saving the world. Because he doesn’t have time to deal with women’s bullshit, it turns out that the girls have to prove themselves to him. You will never see him chasing a girl around trying to win her approval because he knows he doesn’t have to. All the fake, romantic pretty boy gestures don’t exist with this man of mystery – He isn’t there to be prince charming, he is there to be King.
Bond doesn’t act or dress like a tool either. Granted, he is a British agent with an infinite amount of MI6 funds that can afford super expensive cars, ridiculous suites in insanely expensive hotels, and extremely fashionable clothing that make him look sharp, but this shouldn’t discourage you. You don’t need to be an MI6 secret agent to pick up women, nor do you need materialistic things; all you need is the right attitude and presence. You should dress to impress, be classy, and keep women on their feet by being playful with a cocky-funny attitude, but the way you carry yourself will set you apart from all the other guys who are dressing-to-impress also.
There are tons of attractive men, but a lot of men have no idea how to talk to women. They are afraid to let loose and be themselves around them. Men have been trained by society to suppress their masculinity and use a “nice” and “sweet” approach towards women, as if that would ever work. And as much as women claim they want this or that, the truth is, all they really want is to be swept off their feet by a real man who is comfortable in his own skin.
If you’re not sure with your “game plan,” a quick way to check if you’re acting in congruence with a real man, before you take any action, is to ask yourself, “What would James Bond do”? If the answer is “No” then don’t do it. It’s that simple. Would James Bond go up to a girl and start talking like, ” Yo mama….dammmmmn you are fine… can I get me some of that?”… I hope you answered no, because if you didn’t, you have a lot of work ahead of you.
Would James Bond cry about a girl if things didn’t work out? No, he wouldn’t because he has more important things to do and doesn’t have time to whimper over an apparent lost opportunity. He has a life of purpose, and women are just a bonus that comes along with the kind of lifestyle which is full of adventure and meaning. He knows women will come and go in life, so he makes his move and goes from there. If things doesn’t work, he moves on.
Would James Bond get completely wasted and start grinding with random women on the dance floor like a creep? No. He orders his classy vodka martini “shaken not stirred” and keeps himself coherent. You’ll never catch him on the dance floor unless he is dancing in a formal manner and not like some idiot in a club. Then again, James is a British agent, and wouldn’t go to a club anyway.
I could go on about what Bond would or wouldn’t do, but if you know his character, it is pretty simple; if you don’t, then I suggest you learn about it.
When using a Bond-like approach, keep things short, witty, and be a playful. Stand your ground when women test you, and don’t apologize for your masculinity. If you’re going to make a move, make it bold and don’t retreat. If it fails, move on. Alpha men will always have many options when it comes to women so remember to never be submissive or subordinate to them. Women cry about wanting a “good guy” all day, but they will never respect a man that they can walk over and take advantage of. Bond always gets the girl in the end because he doesn’t bend to her will; she bends to his.
Women also are drawn to Bond because his character and lifestyle brings to life arouses emotions and fulfills their fantasies: Dangerous adventures, secret missions, high-speed car chases, lavish dinners, high-risk gambling, various outdoor activities, and more – all of which make women emotionally aroused and stimulated.
Now you don’t have to do exactly what Bond does, but you can easily do similar things to can get the sparks flying. All most women want is to date a man who is able to bring out all the kinds of emotions that they want to experience in their love life: happiness, sadness, joy, fear, humor, passion, curiosity, lust, comfort, suspense, etc… With a man like Bond, they get all of that; with an insecure little boy, they don’t.
So the next time you see a lovely lady and want to approach her, are you going to go up to her like Steve Stiffler from American pie and act like a total douche bag in hope she laughs at your clownish behavior, or are you going to be the smooth, mysterious, witty James Bond type and seduce her like a real man? Actually, either way could work, but in order to pull a Stiffler you would actually need to be a cocky-funny goofy kind of guy, but it takes more work to transition to the seduction stage, whereas, the latter is the way direct men get things done and also ensures that you get the girl that night.