If you’re a man living in today’s “society,” specifically in the West or what’s left of it, this will probably be one of the most, if not the most important posts you will ever read. I’m writing this because I feel that the time has come for Western men across the world to finally put their foot down and grow their balls back.
If you stop and take a look around, you may notice you live in the fucking twilight zone. You watch the news and can’t even believe the insanity that is going on in the world today. You’ll see that the world is falling apart and unless we stand up as unapologetically masculine, strong-minded, opinionated men with hearts of steel and an undying thirst for ultimate justice, truth, and order, then you can kiss our fucking world goodbye.
Now you might be wondering, “Who the fuck are you and why do you think you have any right to tell me how to be a man?” Well if you don’t know me, I was once a weak-minded man afraid of confrontation and hurting people’s feelings. I was a pacifist who always wanted to make sure everyone won in any situation. I wanted peace and stability at all times – which is noble thing of course and I still would prefer that – but it’s delusional to think that it is always possible in a world that is dualistic in nature.
In high school I was friends with everyone, but I wasn’t close to anyone – a friend to everyone is a friend to no one they say. I was also insecure and I couldn’t stand when someone was talking shit about me. In fact, I constantly thought people were talking shit about me when they actually weren’t. I was intimidated by girls and I was shy. I was easily manipulated by emotion and I was afraid of truly being myself because I didn’t want people to reject the real me. So I became the class clown. It was my way to get people to like me because I became their entertainment. This worked well because I was naturally a goofball, but I was doing it so people could like me. But despite being surrounded by people and everything being “nice,” I felt alone anyway since I had created a fake world pampered and softened by white lies, clownish behavior; making everyone else happy but me.
After all the years of putting on show and being weak, I chose to go into the Marine Corps after my senior year because I wanted to become a man. My four years of service and two tours in Iraq certainly sped up the learning process, since I was exposed to the horrors of war which hardened me into a warrior. But behind the uniform and toughness from my experience, I was still a young boy who was confused. I had foolishly believed that some ribbons, stripes, and two wars under my belt, somehow automatically made me a man. Of course this was a false mindset based on a need to be part of something to actually feel like someone special. Granted, I indeed was someone special; becoming part of the Marine Corps is no easy task and it is a unique brotherhood full of selfless brave men and women willing to fight for a higher cause. But the other reason why I joined, aside from fighting for my country and I wanting to be proud of myself for once, I wanted people to respect me. When I came back from the war I would get plenty of the thanks and praise that I yearned for, but I still felt empty inside. No matter what I accomplished or what I did in the years to come, I never felt like a man because all of my validation came externally and not internally.
So what gives me the right or “authority” to write about being unapologetically masculine? Well I don’t claim to be an authority nor do I care to be; all I’m doing here is talking to you man-to-man. But the fact that I was once the opposite in some regards and now I am literally unapologetically masculine to the point it triggers people, I think I do have some valuable input for those seeking some guidance.
I only achieved my mindset recently in the last year, and I earned this spiritual freedom by enduring extremely tough times: increasingly worse PTSD episodes, depression, severe anxiety, enduring several toxic romantic relationships (before my marriage), making terrible life choices, indulging in extreme hedonism, being a womanizer, publicly embarrassing myself, damaging my reputation, destroying part of my family, dealing with addictions, struggling with financial problems, and all sorts of other shit. In the end, I did persevere and finally gained some peace. Of course that doesn’t mean I don’t still deal with shit because I certainly do, but I think the worst has passed, for now. But should more come my way, I know that I am strong and will be able to deal with it accordingly because I have done so before.
With all that being said, I think I’m perfectly suited to discuss this topic. In fact, I feel obligated to. And I don’t need anyone to give me a title or tell me if I am allowed to or not. I want to help guide any man reading this out of the pits of self-loathing and despair, who is sick and tired of feeling emasculated and powerless in world where being a man is considered pure evil to these delusional Marxists and feminazis; especially my brothers living in the West.
But before you continue read on, I ask you to wipe your own current mind-frame clean and begin to believe and accept that you are your own authority, and that no other man, woman, child, animal, alien, robot, or god has any control over you. In other words, you must be prepared to stop pointing fingers and blaming others, stop complaining and start taking action, and stop giving a fuck what people think about you altogether. All of this means you must actually take responsibility for your life and also learn to be your own judge and master. You must be willing to accept absolute sovereignty and not give a fuck about the opinions of anyone; especially anyone who accepts a society that allows a man like Bruce Jenner to be woman of the year!
Easier said than done? Not really. It all comes down to ending the cycle of self-destruction and denial by simply flipping a mental switch once you realize the truth and accept it for what it is. It’s about letting go of the impossible and doing what you can to make your life better by living in accordance to this philosophy I will present to you below.
I believe what I wrote here will help you finally set yourself free from the mental slavery of living up to other people’s standards and give you the correct attitude to start living unapologetically as a man again; and for some of you, the first time in your life.
1) FUCK WHAT SO-CALLED AUTHORITIES AND SOCIETY THINKS
Now this doesn’t mean fuck the police and turn into an anarchist, but it does mean to question authority and never let any human being take advantage of you by claiming they are something without backing it up. Unless you agree to give someone authority or power over you via a social contract, you should reject them and consider them illegitimate. Now of course, there are established authorities that you may not fully agree with which are backed with force, such as the government for example, so that is not what I am referring to here – although I am a big advocate of revolution when your government has become evil. What I really mean is that you must reject the current status quo of mediocrity and cultural Marxism push by “experts” and “authorities” that has dramatically weakened the West and created an environment hostile to any real men left in it: The Fake News Media, leftist professors, cucked politicians, Marxist religious figures, and the rest of these so-called “authority” figures in our society are all literally pushing our nations to the brink of disaster.
These so-called authorities, mostly consisting of weak beta-males, have directly contributed to the demise of the West and it is happening because many of them are inferior traitors who would sell out their own children for money, sex, fame, power and more. The inferior man is typically a materialist who believes his value is measured by things, because such materialists are attempting to fill a void in their soul. Some however, are trying to seem morally superior, by adhering to politically correct doctrines so they are not rejected by their peers. Again, a form of weakness and cuckoldry which cannot be tolerated.
The truth is, losers run this fucking world because they outnumber the winners, and the only reason why they have any power is because the winners have become soft, complacent, fearful, and selfish. How many times have you heard from someone, “I know its fucked up bro, it is what it is, we can’t change anything.” Bullshit! We can change everything, but we can’t change anything by complaining and doing nothing about it. Yet these people believe that things will magically work themselves one day; allowing losers to literally take over the planet and ruin everything while they sit there in silence.
If you do not openly reject this backwards society and the “authorities” who push it onto you; its political correctness and its norms (which are increasingly becoming more and more abnormal), then you are bound to be destroyed by it and you are complicit in your own demise. Even with the noble mindset of “live-and-let-live,” you are enabling it; and believe me, society today is out to destroy you. The reasons why I bring up Western society in this post is because I want you to understand that we have a lot more to lose than a date with some hot chick if we don’t grow our balls back and purge our world of the poison that is infecting our society.
2) FUCK WHAT WOMEN THINK
Now, this doesn’t mean disrespect women or treat them like shit, but it does mean stop putting the pussy on the pedestal and allowing yourself to be controlled, manipulated, or influenced by women just because you want to get laid or feel that you will be less of a man if you aren’t running a harem. I am married and my wife does not control me, nor do I control her. However, she naturally respects me and submits to my masculine energy because that is what women are hard-wired to do.
I don’t take advantage of this nor do I ask much of her at all; I provide for the family and she takes care of my son and me. I leave her be and I respect her to the best of my ability. I have no interest in ruling over her or subduing her to my will because I am not an insecure man who feels that women need to be subjected to tyranny like some of these delusional nationalists out there who want to go back to the 1800’s, strip women of their voting rights, and lock them in the kitchen.
A strong man will naturally be a leader of both men and women and doesn’t need to invoke a Sharia Law-like supremacy to ensure order. But when women do try to fuck with me, I shut that shit down immediately. Whether it’s my mom, wife, a girlfriend, or some bat-shit crazy feminazi, I don’t tolerate unacceptable behavior and I stomp it out the moment I see it.
I’ve had my share of women throughout my life and I’ve learned over the years dealing with some crazy fucking broads just how low they will go to manipulate you. Since women cannot physically dominate men, they try to guilt them into submission with psychological warfare. Once you know this, you can combat it. When attacked in this manner, you must ruthlessly shutdown any further attempts to manipulate you immediately. I have grown immune to such manipulation so no amount of name-calling, crying, guilt-tripping, claims of sexism, or appealing to “muh Patriarchy” will stop me from saying or doing what is necessary. I simply don’t give a fuck about anything but doing what is right and will rather die than back down. Sounds immature and stubborn? Quite the contrary. If you are right, and you are standing up for something that is true, you must never back down to those who are unable to emotionally handle it: You are obligated to defend it and yourself from these weaker people who wish to impose their delusional views on you and others.
To summarize, women gravitate towards power, and if you are an insecure weakling who allows them to talk down to you, disrespect you, fully control you, and ruin your life, they will never respect you and will shit on you every chance they get. And if the majority of men allow this, as they currently do, then the unchecked feminine energy will create a matriarchal welfare state so politically correct and unsustainable that it will make the Soviet Union look like child’s play.
Now women may not know they are helping to bring about a communist welfare state, and this is because women naturally evolved to nurture their young, so they tend to in favor of policies that are left-leaning and socialist. There’s nothing wrong with helping the poor and needy, but when this feminine impulse is left unchecked, women will extend this maternal drive towards illegals and other threats our society. Furthermore, unchecked feminine energy will cause women to relentlessly push for policies that attack men and push to protect feelings over facts; thus the “hate-speech” and “muh feelz” nonsense that has become so prevalent in the world today. Again, because women cannot physically dominate men, they can only wage psychological warfare and appeal to emotion in hopes to manipulate them to get what they need. With all the pussified, inferior cucked men in power, aligned with all of these new-age feminized cat-ladies, the most ridiculous suicidal policies have been implemented in our society, and it’s only a matter of time until they destroy everything; including them.
But don’t take what I am saying to mean that it’s all women’s fault, as some angry men will claim, because it’s actually everyone’s fault; especially the cucks and traitors who betrayed us all.
It is absolutely imperative that each and every one of you never allow any woman or cuck to manipulate you. When challenged by either one, you must first try to talk sense into them. If that fails, which is most likely to be the case, then you must ruthlessly shame them and NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR DOING SO!
3) BE REAL AND STOP PEOPLE-PLEASING
People-pleasing is disingenuous; people know it and they will take advantage of you because you deserve it. It is one thing to be civil in a social environment to avoid confrontation where it may not be the right time to be confrontational; it’s another to not confront something when it must be confronted in order avoid rocking the boat because you’re afraid to hurt people’s feelings. In fact, I urge you to go out of your way to seek and destroy all things that are false and contributing to the downfall of any aspect of your life; especially things in our politically-correct society that are poisoning the minds of our people in the West.
You also need to learn to start saying “No” when you don’t actually want to do something. You may piss someone off but it’s not your place to be someone’s bitch, always be available when they want, or always be willing to do what they want you to do. In fact, anyone who tries to guilt trip you when you do say no is trying to manipulate you. When this happens, you must call them out on it and reprimand them for their unacceptable behavior. Let them know that you won’t tolerate that bullshit and if they keep up with that behavior you will simply terminate the relationship because you don’t have time for fucking games. This strong and unapologetic stance will eventually teach these people to stop once they know the gig is up.
In summary, stop being a fake bitch. Stop trying to impress anyone; especially women, and be yourself. I know you’ve heard “Be Yourself” over and over and you probably still don’t know what it actually means…well here is what I think it means:
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, BE STRAIGHTFORWARD WITH OTHERS WITHOUT FEAR OF THE FUCKING CONSEQUENCES, DON’T BE AFRAID TO WALK AWAY FROM SOMETHING, and NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS FOR ANYONE.
4) STAND YOUR FUCKING GROUND
When you start being unapologetically masculine with your political views, lifestyle, behavior, and with your standards, everyone will have no choice but to respect the fact that you don’t need their validation or acceptance. Ironically, this carefree attitude and strong mindset makes people gravitate towards you since it shows them that you are free from the need to being accepted by others.
People who are disingenuous and weak-minded only dream about being that free; they wish they were brave enough to truly speak their mind and not care about being rejected, hated, feeling alone, or afraid of losing something. But little do these people realize that their cowardly, apologetic behavior is precisely what constructs the very mental prison that they have to quietly suffer in while running around pretending everything is just fine.
Being unapologetically masculine means you are a dominate man who simply doesn’t give a shit about anyone who isn’t in your corner because you don’t need them, their opinions, their fake energy, nor the world they live in. Even if people say they fucking hate you, I guarantee secretly, they will still respect at you at some level because you’re a man who stands his ground. You stand proud and tall while other weaklings get stomped on in hopes to be accepted by people they dont’ even really like.
How sad is that?
5) LOVE AND ACCEPT YOURSELF
The most important thing that you must do before you can even implement anything written above is that you must learn to love and accept yourself; accept who you are, your current flaws and all, and understand that you are not perfect nor could you ever be perfect. That is not to say that you shouldn’t try to improve on your weak points or strive for perfection, because you should, but it does mean that no matter how hard you try, you are human and will never fix everything about yourself because perfection is impossible. So instead, acknowledge your strengths and use them to do good for yourself and others; realize that it’s ok to have flaws, and know that they are there to test you and keep you pushing to become better.
Once you truly accept who you are, you will no longer care if people talk shit or make fun of you. Why? Because the things they would be making fun of are the flaws that you already know and accept to be true. If you are short and someone calls you a midget, so what? If you are secure with yourself and accept that you are short, you wouldn’t care; in fact you’d probably laugh. You would only care if you wished you were taller and hate that you are short; only then could you be triggered by that insecurity that will absolutely be used against you, because you use it against yourself.
People respond to power and confidence; they’ll only care about your flaws as much as you do. Accept and love who you truly are, understand we are all dealt our unique hand in this life, and play that hand the best that you can.
6) START DOING
Now that you know the strong mindset that will help you become unapologetically masculine, you must begin to take the proper actions to manifest these principles in reality. It does no good to know what is right and do nothing with it. I believe men are creatures of “doing” while women are creatures of “being.” What I mean by this is that masculine energy drives one to hunt, build, philosophize, debate, conquer, problem-solve etc., whereas feminine energy drives one to nurture, maintain, monitor, heal, comfort, and take-care of already existing things. I also believe that women live more in the moment, whereas men are more the future-oriented; thinking of what threats or challenges to deal with next.
So as a creature of doing, you must do things in your life that will make you more masculine in every aspect. You must walk, talk, think, and act like a masculine man. You must be a leader, a winner, and be driven towards some goal that you must achieve for yourself and for others.
They say knowledge is power, but I say knowledge is potential. What good is knowledge if it is not used to achieve something? It’s useless. So don’t fall into the trap of reading hundreds of self-help books, internet articles, watching 1000 life-coach videos, all while you keep hesitating to pull the trigger on something because you fear making a mistake. You must take action! You must start making decisions and learn to deal with the consequences as they come. You must have confidence in yourself; that no matter what happens you will make it work in the end. You must strive to be the best man you can be and never apologize for who you are truly are.
Think long and hard to find out what you need to do to better your life. Find a reason to live; a purpose that will inspire you. Get into shape both mentally and physically and embark on a journey into the unknown to challenge yourself and grow. You may not know what to do with yourself now, but you will. And once you know what you want to do, GO FUCKING DO IT and don’t let anyone get in your way.
Be a man. Be a leader. Be a winner. Be unapologetic. Be a hero. Be free.
Everyone’s future depends on it.